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t Parts of Conversation; the well…dress’d Dishes; the Goodness of the Wines; the fine Weather; & c。; and enjoy all with Chearfulness。 Those who are to be unhappy think & speak only of the contraries。 Hence they are continually discontented themselves; and by their Remarks sour the Pleasures of Society; offend personally many People; and make themselves everywhere disagreeable。 If this Turn of Mind was founded in Nature; such unhappy Persons would be the more to be pitied。 But as the Disposition to criticize; & be disgusted; is perhaps taken up originally by Imitation; and is unawares grown into a Habit; which tho’ at present strong may nevertheless be cured when those who have it are convinc’d of its bad Effects on their Felicity; I hope this little Admonition may be of Service to them; and put them on changing a Habit; which tho’in the Exercise it is chiefly an Act of Imagination yet has serious Consequences in Life; as it brings on real Griefs and Misfortunes。 For as many are offended by; & nobody well loves this Sort of People; no one shows them more than the most mon civility and respect; and scarcely that; and this frequently puts them out of humour; and draws them into disputes and contentions。 If they aim at obtaining some advantage in rank of fortune; nobody wishes them success; or will stir a step; or speak a word; to favour their pretensions。 If they incur public censure or disgrace; no one will defend or excuse; and many join to aggravate their misconduct; and